Sunday, May 25, 2008

Lesson # 29 | MARK 10:35-45 | THE TRUE PLACE OF HONOR

I.    Greetings: 

 

II.   Introduction:  Trying To Be Close And Honest.

            Note:  Having friends is one of the greatest joys of life, but it can also be one of the most frustrating things as well.

            Q  Have you ever tried to communicate with a friend, and they have not listened though you remained good friends? 

            Frustrating isn't it?  Jesus faced this very same thing with his closest friends and companions;  His disciples.  He tried to unburden His very heart and help them understand, not only His coming grief at the cross, but the true nature of His mission.

            Note:  We are going to look at something truly incredible today.  It will astound you, but first let us review.

>>>> Have someone read Mark 10:32-34.

            Q  What is Jesus saying lies in His future?

               An = He predicts suffering and pain, but also triumph.  These three things are tied together in a true understanding of Jesus' ministry.  Jesus tries to let them know the truth of what lies ahead.  He also wants to be able to share His upcoming difficulty with them. 

 

III.  Hung-Up On Rank, Pride and Glory:    Mark 10:35-37.

>>>> Have someone read Mark 10:35-37.

            Q  Do they understand what Jesus is saying in 10:32-34?  Are they sensitive to His plan or His coming pain?

               An = No they completely ignore what Jesus is talking about.  They have their own agenda. 

            Q  What are they concerned about?

               An = They are concerned about their agenda of position and rank!  Of course today ministers never do this!  The Holy Apostles did though.  Jesus has unburdened His heart of the most important plan in history, and they are concerned as to who sits where!  Incredible, astounding, amazing! 

            Q  What is your opinion of these men?

            Q  What is Jesus doing in Mark 10:36?

               An = He asks them to talk.  He is asking them to tell the truth about their desires.

            Q  Does Jesus listen? 

               An = Yes He does.

            Q  Will He listen to us?

               An = Yes, He will.  Lets stop right now and tell God truthfully what we really want.  He knows anyway.  We should be concerned with the things of God, but we really are concerned with our own agenda.

            (Stop now and lead them in prayer), perhaps spend part of the time in silence and encourage people to truly, but privately, tell God what they really want.

            Note:  Often we are not clued into what Jesus is trying to say to us about genuine Christian truth.  The disciples still saw Jesus' ministry the way they wanted to:  an eschatological Lord who would restore the Davidic throne (Lane, 378).  The disciples believed the nation of Israel would become great in the world, and they would all become great lords or governors.  They saw Jesus as the means to their own advancement.

            Q  Did they really hear Jesus words about His coming death? 

               An = No, though in Mark 8-10 He has told them five times!

            Note:  Can God let us know what is on His heart?  Or are we like the disciples and too wrapped up in our own agendas?  Do we claim to be more spiritually advanced, but we are sadly not interested in Jesus' agenda, only some concern of our own?  We claim superior theology but are not really listening to our Lord.

            RQ Who cares about what the Lord cares about?

 

IV.  Jesus' Reality Check:  Mark 10:38-40.

>>>> Have someone read Mark 10:38-40.

            Q  How does Jesus respond to their request?

               An = He answers with a challenge to suffer.  The cup in the Old Testament is the "cup of judgment".  If cup means judgment, why was Jesus to meet judgment?  He was to bear our sins.  He was to drink the cup of judgment for our sins.

            Q  Was their suffering on the same level as His?

               An = No!

            Q  Why did they answer yes?

               An = Our pride often blinds us.  It is true they would suffer, but not for the salvation of the whole world. 

>>>> Then re-read Mark 10:40

            Q  What does that mean?

               An = Jesus submits to the Father's will, for example see Acts 1:7.

>>> Read Acts 1:7.  Preparation had been made and Jesus would submit.

 

V.  An Angry Response:   Mark 10:41

>>>> Have someone read Mark 10:41.

            Q  What is the other disciples' reaction?  Why?

               An = They are angry!  Why the anger?  Well, it takes one to know one?  We often criticize in others what we see in ourselves.

            RQ  Are we so blinded that there is no hope for us?

            RQ  Will we ever get God's agenda?

            Q  Did the apostles ever get Jesus' agenda, did they ever change?

               An = >>>> Have someone read Acts 12:2  >>>> Have someone read Revelation 1:9

            Note:  Take hope, let Jesus keep working with you and let Him keep giving His critique, then we can progress.

 

VI.  The True Way Of Glory:  Mark 10:42-45

>>>> Have someone read Mark 10:42-45.

            Q  What does Jesus say about "Gentile" or "non-believers" and their use of authority in Mark 10:42?

               An = Gentiles (which the Jews despised), lorded it "over them".

            Note:  Notice also that 43a says not "should not be" but it is not.  Real leaders, real authorities in the Kingdom of God are not thus.  Jesus is not talking about what should be, but what really is.  If we think our arrogance or pride in obtaining position or fame among Christians is leadership we are fooling ourselves.  Real authority comes from service.

            Q  What are the "how-to-be-great" instructions found in Mark 10: 43-44?

               An = To be great one must be a servant.  If one wants to be first one must be slave of all.

            Q  Practically what does that mean? 

               An = Let them answer this in their own words.

            Q  Can you give examples of this in your own experience with leadership you have seen?

               An = Let them give examples, only give one if they do not.

            Note:  Verse 45 is both the motivation for servant leadership and the example of Jesus for us to follow.  As an example, He was the greatest, smartest, most talented, most powerful, and most spiritually gifted man to live on earth.  He served, even to death.  The motivation stems from wanting to be like Him.

            Q  Practically what does not coming "to be served but to serve" mean?  Have you seen someone do this lately?

               An = Let them share examples.  Give them some suggestions on how to practically do this.

            Q  How does "give His life a ransom for many" practically apply to us? 

               An = How would one die for a family member, like a parent or brother or sister?  What part or aspect of our life would die?

            Note:  Most people struggle with low self-esteem and so attempt to gain by obtaining a position, but good self-esteem comes from serving others.  Jesus is not insecure, because He served and sacrificially served others.

 

VII.  Summary:  Procedure For Peace With Our Feelings Of Insecurity.

            1.  Tell Jesus what we really want (10:36).

            2.  Listen to the challenge to join Him (10:38-39).

            3.  Follow the instructions - be as Jesus, (in other words, be godly, be like Jesus because He was God) (Mark 10:43-44).

            4.  Take courage!  The disciples were so dense even though Jesus Christ was their teacher!  However, they eventually did understand what real authority meant. 

            Note:

John ultimately understood, and later wrote a beautiful summary of what Jesus tried so hard to teach him.  >>>> Read John 3:16.

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